It's funny isn't it. feminism is all about equality, and being able to choose - so women or men should be able to either stay at home or get a job or do whatever,
"Tradwives " itself doesn't bother me - it's not for me, but doesn't mean it's wrong, Through out history the pendulum must always swing both ways to find balance. However I agree - anything which sounds like loss of control does worry me.
The challenge - and I don't know the answer - is how do we create a world where people are truly informed of all their options and possibilities in an unbiased manner. Only then would I be satisfied each person is living a life truly to their values but based on having full awareness of choice!